{"id":290,"date":"2026-09-09T09:55:01","date_gmt":"2026-09-09T09:55:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/livinghope.vn\/chua-phan-loai\/for-couples-common-questions-and-concerns-with-couples-counselling\/"},"modified":"2026-09-09T14:40:01","modified_gmt":"2026-09-09T14:40:01","slug":"for-couples-common-questions-and-concerns-with-couples-counselling","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/livinghope.vn\/vi\/chua-phan-loai\/for-couples-common-questions-and-concerns-with-couples-counselling\/","title":{"rendered":"D\u00e0nh cho c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i: Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 b\u0103n kho\u0103n th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p v\u1ec1 tham v\u1ea5n c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><br \/>\n<br \/>\nTham v\u1ea5n c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u1ea5t, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u0169ng mang l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi cho nh\u1eefng b\u0103n kho\u0103n th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p v\u1ec1 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cT\u00f4i lo chuy\u00ean vi\u00ean tham v\u1ea5n s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Trong tham v\u1ea5n c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i, chuy\u00ean vi\u00ean tham v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda ng\u01b0\u1eddi A hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi B. Chuy\u00ean vi\u00ean s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 ng\u1ed3i quan s\u00e1t hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi tranh lu\u1eadn r\u1ed3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ai \u0111\u00fang, ai sai. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd gi\u00fap c\u1ea3 hai di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 an to\u00e0n, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n m\u00e0 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c duy tr\u00ec b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i c\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i tham v\u1ea5n. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 l\u00fac b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y chuy\u00ean vi\u00ean tham v\u1ea5n c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i ch\u01b0a l\u1eafng nghe ho\u1eb7c ch\u01b0a hi\u1ec3u m\u00ecnh, h\u00e3y th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn chia s\u1ebb \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi h\u1ecd!<\/p>\n<p>\u201cN\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111i c\u00f9ng th\u00ec sao?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u2014 d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f4i khi ch\u00fang ta r\u1ea5t mong h\u1ecd thay \u0111\u1ed5i. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111au l\u00f2ng m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t. \u0110\u00f4i khi, vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi th\u1eed tham gia m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 bu\u1ed5i tham v\u1ea5n c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p dung h\u00f2a h\u1eefu \u00edch. Tuy nhi\u00ean, trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u01b0\u1eddng mang l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm tham v\u1ea5n c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cN\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i trong bu\u1ed5i tham v\u1ea5n c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i th\u00ec sao?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3i v\u00e0 k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh sau s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1edbi l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. C\u1ea3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i chia s\u1ebb g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c s\u00e2u h\u01a1n c\u1ee7a tham v\u1ea5n c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch g\u1ecdi t\u00ean nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac n\u1eb1m ph\u00eda sau c\u00e1c s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nhau x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng gian an to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n<p>Tham v\u1ea5n c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng nghe, h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3, khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u. 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