{"id":283,"date":"2026-09-09T09:55:01","date_gmt":"2026-09-09T09:55:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/livinghope.vn\/chua-phan-loai\/why-do-we-keep-having-the-same-argument-over-and-over-again\/"},"modified":"2026-09-09T14:40:01","modified_gmt":"2026-09-09T14:40:01","slug":"why-do-we-keep-having-the-same-argument-over-and-over-again","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/livinghope.vn\/vi\/chua-phan-loai\/why-do-we-keep-having-the-same-argument-over-and-over-again\/","title":{"rendered":"\"T\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta c\u1ee9 l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c c\u00e3i v\u00e3?\""},"content":{"rendered":"<p><br \/>\n<br \/>\n&#8220;B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng d\u00f9 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00e3i nhau thay \u0111\u1ed5i, nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c sau m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u1eabn gi\u1ed1ng h\u1ec7t nhau?&#8221;<br \/>\nTi\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, con c\u00e1i hay c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ebfm khi l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c c\u00e3i v\u00e3 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i. \u0110\u1eb1ng sau nh\u1eefng xung \u0111\u1ed9t \u1ea5y th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng, nh\u1eefng t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi t\u00ean v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen.<br \/>\nKhi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00e0ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch ho\u1eb7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00e0ng im l\u1eb7ng ho\u1eb7c tr\u00e1nh n\u00e9 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. V\u00f2ng l\u1eb7p n\u00e0y l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i khi\u1ebfn c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u, d\u00f9 c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u mong mu\u1ed1n m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n.<br \/>\nTham v\u1ea5n gi\u00fap c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c n\u00e0y, hi\u1ec3u \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111ang k\u00edch ho\u1ea1t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i m\u1edbi gi\u00fap x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i thay v\u00ec ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau.<br \/>\nT\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, m\u00e0 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n tin r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0y x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vun \u0111\u1eafp v\u00e0 ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh.<br \/>\n<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":207,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-283","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-chua-phan-loai"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/livinghope.vn\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/283","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/livinghope.vn\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/livinghope.vn\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/livinghope.vn\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/livinghope.vn\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=283"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/livinghope.vn\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/283\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":334,"href":"https:\/\/livinghope.vn\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/283\/revisions\/334"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/livinghope.vn\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/207"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/livinghope.vn\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=283"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/livinghope.vn\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=283"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/livinghope.vn\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=283"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}